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A secure application dedicated to sexting has just been created

What could be more intimate and confidential than a sext? A secure application dedicated to sexting has just been created, it’s called Blyynd.

Sometimes seen as a way to make your couple last , or to escape from it without crossing the barrier of infidelity, sexting still poses a problem: that of security, especially with teenagers . We send each other naked, intimate photos, but how do we know what the other will do with them next? How do you also know if the application via which it was sent is “safe” and does not risk leaking this kind of images? To address these issues, a secure sexting application has just been created, says Neon, according to the presentation made at the Consumer Electronic Show in Las Vegas.


A secure application dedicated to sexting has just been createdIt is called Blyynd , it is in the test phase (with 4,000 people) and it combines two essential ingredients to guarantee the security of your exchanges: firstly , everything is anonymous, secondly, no data backup is carried out by the French company, which ensures that conversations are encrypted. To combat revenge porn, the “screenshot” feature has been blocked . As a reminder, there is an emergency number against cyberviolence, 3018 . Another technology put in place: artificial intelligence to block racist or child pornography content.

To create a profile, you will not have to enter a photo. On the other hand, you will be able to give certain information concerning your wishes, or even choose the people with whom you wish to communicate. In his conversation, you can choose whether or not to receive photos of a sexual nature , there is a “safe lock” button, to block them. What if we lost our phone? The conversation would be deleted automatically, assure the creators.

All the Pleasure is Hers: A Documentary on Female Sexuality

This January 6, at 9 p.m., the Téva channel will unveil a documentary dedicated to female sexuality, called “All the pleasure is for her”.

“Female sexuality is mysterious”, “The female sex is complicated”, “There are two types of orgasms in women: vaginal and clitoral”, “Women have less libido than men”… The clichés on female pleasure would be difficult to enumerate in their totality as they are numerous. To try to wring their necks, the Téva channel will broadcast a documentary this Friday evening, signed Sarah Fournier. Objective: unlock the secrets of female pleasure.


All the pleasure is for her has the merit of addressing the question of female sexuality on a TNT channel, and of participating in popularizing the plurality of experiences, as well as the knowledge of a sexologist , interviewed in front of the camera. Téva is not at its first attempt in terms of programs related to sexuality, it notably hosts a program called OrgasmiQ . This time, the approach is different: a group of people are followed through a sort of feminine sexual labyrinth, reminiscent of an exhibition, with rooms that explore the different themes: masturbation, desire, the senses.

Each one is filmed as they discover the sets and are questioned about their own experience throughout the spaces. Which gives a little the impression of reality TV candidates who discover their “house of secrets” and dilutes the subject of the documentary . We …

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Flower Sex vs. Kink – Why we should stop pigeonholing sex

What actually is good sex? One question, a thousand answers, and many who seem to be quite sure of their cause. While a (large) part of the population may not like to debate this publicly at all, and the topic, if only hinted at, causes giggles or an embarrassed silence, there is also the other direction: making sexuality the number 1 topic, this “openness “ to glorify and to understand one’s own experimentation or one’s own kink as something which means maximum development of one’s sexuality. At times, people look at those who don’t seem to have gotten that far with a little contempt.

Flower Sex vs KinkMy text is also to be understood as a plea to become aware of the variety of lived sexuality and to break away from all the categorizations.
Both are extremes that I describe very strongly: Luckily there is also everything in between and my text is also to be understood as a plea to be aware of the diversity of lived sexuality and perhaps to break away from all the categorizations a bit, which – in Austria one would now say: “no na” (translation: eh, of course!) – we like and need people, but they are also often very restrictive.

“Daisy Sex” vs. Kink

A good example of this is the often invoked distinction between “vanilla” sex and any kind of kinks. As if there were only two types of sex: “Classic” sex with the associations normal, in bed, often heteronormative with a penis in the vagina, run-of-the-mill and perhaps with a romantic component. And in contrast, the world of kinks: living out fantasies, a few specific preferences, always a “dirty mind” and a desire for sex parties.

A little reminder: you don’t have to choose just one! That’s the good thing about sex

Do both sound exaggerated? Or both good? Oh yes, a little reminder: you don’t have to choose one! That’s the good thing about sex and everything that has to do with arousal and desire: It can always be different and it can also develop or change over time.

How our sexuality develops and grows

We have a sexuality since we are born, erections of the penis and vagina/vulva can be detected in the womb and every child that is born discovers its body and can feel arousal. These are the first learning steps on the way to adult sexuality, which will look very different for everyone later: depending on which pleasure connections are created in the body, depending on which sexual mindset you notice and develop, depending on experience and trying out with your own body.

One can perhaps understand one’s sexual competences as packages that are collected through chance, opportunity and possibility.
From childhood we function according to the principle: “What feels good is repeated” and so one can perhaps understand one’s own sexual competences as packages that are collected by chance, opportunity and possibilities. And yes, the great thing about it is that you can continue to collect, expand and shift focus throughout your life – this is exactly the direction I work with my clients in sex counseling.

To have sex

With this “equipment” you now encounter our world, all the do’s and don’ts that are conveyed depending on the zeitgeist and society, potential love and sex partners, contexts, …

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